Do you still hold hands with your husband? Adam is much better about reaching for my hand than I am about reaching for his, but after being married for 7 years and dating for 4 years before that, we still hold hands. Not as much as when we were dating, but I still love it when he reaches out to hold my hand when we're walking or driving in the car.
I read a survey in Real Simple that said couples who have been together up to five years hold hands a couple time a week, but less than half of couples who have been together for 10 or more years still hold hands. I think that's sad!
I'm not saying that if you don't hold hands with your spouse you have a terrible marriage, but I think there is something special about the simple guesture of holding someone's hand. I always smile when I see older couples holding hands at church or at a restaurant. I hope that's Adam and me some day!
Today, I challenge you to hold your honey's hand! Maybe it will be unexpected or maybe it's something you already do naturally, but reach out and show them you love them with a little hand holding.